I find myself to be a really nice but not the guy that dudes look at right away with that "MMM DAMN" eye. The best thing I usually hear is "you're a cool dude" or "oh my god he is so funny". Granted if it wasn't for the sense of humour that I have today, I am pretty sure I would have committed suicide along time ago. I used to think that I was so unattractive and while I still struggle with my insecurities, I have come to understand that I can't change my features so no nose jobs, no eye lifts, no lip injections or cheek implants or any of that. I have to just work with what I have and I can't lie there are just times where I feel that maybe what I'm working with is not enough. Is this why we have so many whores and sluts? The girls have big boobs wear a shirt short of exposing the ariola (sp?) and they wear poom poom shorts knowing good and well one leg is going in the crack of their ass while the other one is laying down, now you know that is a CODE 10!
I consider myself a really handsome guy, I actually do. I think I've always been handsome but not the "cute" boy, everybody wants that boy that looks like a member of B2K or something and I've never been that guy and for the record I look like an absolute idiot in a fitted. I think I've maybe had a "cute" phase probably between the age of 23 - 25, my skin was clear, I was the thinnest I had ever been at about 145lbs and guys were hitting on me left and right. I kinda wish I wasn't detoxing from my last failed relationship and made more of the most of the attention that I was getting at that time. It really did boost my confidence to know that no matter where I was going I was able to turn heads. Now that I am no longer turning heads and I am more than worried because now I am trying to figure what in the world do I need to do to get their attention. This is getting harder and harder. SCARED.
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Looks face dude. So don't worry yourself about that. In a relationship, looks can only get you thru the door. It's the personality that keeps you on the playing field. I don't care what anyone says, because it's usually the REALLY pretty dudes who are high maintenance and stuck up dick heads, lol. The beauty within shines thru the beauty on the outside.
ReplyDeleteI go to the gym because it makes me feel good. I enjoy working out because of the way I feel on my way home. If it was because I was concerned of what people thought about me... it wouldn't work. Dude, don't let the petty shit get to you. You're too hot for that, lol.
I used to be the same way...I always thought I was cute, but not the 'IT' guy that everyone wanted. Now that I'm older I don't give a fuck...plain and simple. Looks can only get you so far, and eventually they fade away.
ReplyDeleteAww baby. How old are you now? And just because you get their attention does not mean that some quality is there. Most attention you get is because of your physical because thats the first thing they see. Now that you are older and maturer dont you want them to see something more than just a cute guy or a sexy young man. Wouldnt you like to be handsome grown man? I think you are, but the attention that you are seeking is not worthy of the maturation you have acquired now that you are older.
ReplyDeleteIt gets scary because its not plentiful and it feels like nothing is out there. But have you ever considered that at this stage in your life, a change of scenery would do you some good? You're only gonna get one chance at this honey. Do what you need to do but never lose sight of the prize. It's not some meaningless one night stand or the same ..YOU ARE FINE AS HELL COMMENTS....feels good....but doesnt mean its good for you once you delve deeper into its substance.
Keep your head up and be mindful of all that is around you and formulate a new plan....get....A NEW ATTITUDE!
*Della aka RoCkii*
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working out does feel good, but let's not front. if it made ur body look unattractive u wouldn't do it. u can't divorce your actions from societal influences, unless you're a hermit or sociopath. what constitutes a healthy self-image is the degree to which societal influences impact the individual. Very much a question of balance.
ReplyDeletei had one of those periods right before i met my partner when i was "cute". it was great, can't even front on that lol. but i'd rather my partner love my wholeness, rather than just my physical, cuz like the comments above have said, that shit fades in a blink.
have you seen those guys that we use to lust after when you were younger? have you seen them lately? Yup, they peaked too damn early. Be thankful, I know I am.